Week 2
Here we go, week 2. Slow week all of it. Tuesday I do not recall anything about. Friday was calm. The only thing standing out in my memory was the group of two women and two men. Sat together at the stage. Asked intrusive questions, made stupid comments and humoring themselves and talked about the girls while we were on stage. Yea when I go to strip clubs (which is rare) I too have opinions about the dancers but I would never sit at a dancer's stage and talk about her while she is dancing, good or bad. If I have something to say, I direct my comments to the dancer directly and it would only be something good. Anything negative I will save for the ride home. Many people have poor social skills. Like I do not go to a coffee shop and stare at the barista while she is making my coffee and whisper loudly about her to my friend. ? It is RUDE. Dancers are human too, it is weird how many people put dancers in a seperate category from everybody else. I only danced on stage once while they were there. First the women decided that my hair must be extensions. They first discussed it amongst themselves before asking me. I corrected them.....not extensions, a cheap wig that I get at Sally's for $19.99. One of the women then said that I had inspired her to get extensions. LOL. The other woman said that I inspired her to work out. I do not work out.....but thanks. Then one of the guys wanted me to like give extra attention (wink wink) to one of the women. I could tell they were so out of their element and she was not really feeling it and neither was I, so I said that I am not into sexually assaulting people.
I kept my distance from them. Woooohooo you went to a strip club, how unusual!
Saturday too was slow. A guy came in, sat at the stage then at the bar and then he asked if we have any video lotto machines. No but the bar next door does I informed him. He said that he would go and try his luck and come back if he won. And he came back a few hours later, he got some dances with me. He was very nice. He called me "preciuos".
Around midnight a group of like 10 people made a loud entrance. Probably half of them were already intoxicated to the point that they should not have had anything more to drink but they got served anyways. I knew right away that they were going to be a problem. The women in the group were staring rudely at us. Listen......I PROMISE none of us want your knuckle dragger man, you can keep him all to yourself so RELAX. One of the guys was so over the top loud, looked like a sweaty, bulked out cage fighter and needed to show off his strenght by trying to arm wrestle and wanted to shake hands with innocent bystanders and squeezed their hands really hard while making loud unintelligible sounds. I hate that kind of behavior. Us girls were so annoyed by the whole group and the other patrons in the club were too growing more and more irritated with them as well. While I was doing a dance in the dance room things started to escalate out on the floor and when I came out people almost started to fight each other. There was some loud yelling, squaring off and pushing and the group that came in were told to get out. They had no business in there in the first place.
We do get way too many people that have no business of being at the club. So lesson here is, do not go to a strip club thinking it is just a bar because it is not. Do also not go there to trash talk the dancers. Do not go there if you are insecure and think that the girls want your man because we do not. And do not go there to show off your loud mouth and muscles because nobody is interested and it will ge you kicked out. Be normal, be polite and be appropriate. Appreciate the dancers and your night will be good.
I took pictures for the club's IG. We also have a calendar, although last year the calendar did not happen due to that for some (dumb) reason it was decided (not by the dancers) that we had to get our pictures taken INSIDE the club by a "professional" photographer. The pictures turned out pretty bad which I knew they would. The club is ugly, the lighting in the club is like one of the worst I have ever seen, therefore I did not have any expectations whatsoever for the pictures. Some sheets hung up as a backdrop and the lights brought in for the shoot were TERRIBLE. I took some pictures but when I saw the results I said absolutely NOT. Like lighting is super important. Then it was decided that we could submit our own picture (because the "professional" pictures were so bad) for the calendar if it was "professional", meaning not a selfie of some sort.....well it all dragged out too long until it was too late. I am not sure if there will be a calendar made for 2026 but I decided that I am not participating. Only if I can submit the above picture.....how about that? Is that good enough for a calendar? 
Friday and Saturday were both similar, as in it was very slow. We mostly sat around and talked. I feel more and more annoyed with people. It could be a phase or it could be that the people that come in have that effect on me (it's not a phase). We do get a lot of annoying people but we do have some super nice people too which makes it worth it. But the drunk troglodytes.....I just can't. The reason I climb the walls is because I am out of my mind with understimulation and boredom, BUT I have to stay, we cannot leave early so I am STUCK in a wodden box with troglodytes, therefore I act crazy, it is a coping mechanism. I do not drink or smoke weed like some of the girls that I work with, instead I act "crazy". At least it is entertaining. 
